I’m a day (or two!) late, and a dollar short, like always!!
The Prompts:
1.) 10 Reasons why you’re better off without him….or her….or it.
The minute I read this, I almost fell out of my chair, laughing. Those who know me during my post divorce, single years will laugh as well. I spent about 4 years ranging from dating someone seriously enough to consider marrying him; to the opposite end of the spectrum, bar-hopping with my single friends and dating more losers than I care to count. There were even periods in between, where I didn’t go out, (very brief) had a psycho ex-bf, and lost my sense of self worth running after a total a**hole.
I’m a firm believer in ‘everything happens for a reason’, and if I hadn’t dealt with all of the crappy stuff, I wouldn’t appreciate all of the wonderful things in store. After meeting Brett, my life began to slowly settle down into place, as God intended.
1. Brett: I wouldn’t have met my incredibly fabulous husband, had the circumstances in my life not led me his way. Who am I kidding?? God picked him out for me, and finally put him in my path.
He’s worth so many years of kissing frogs, and putting up with loads of BS. I thank God that I get to wake up with him every day!
2-4 The Kennedy Kaboodle: Blessed beyond my wildest dreams, with 3 of the most beautiful children in the world.
5. A deeper faith: Being in the midst of a bad relationship leaves you with a whole lot of reason to increase your praying time!
6. Loss of a Materialistic Attitude: Some of the folks with whom I was running around lived pretty high on the hog. I was getting really caught up in all the trappings of a busy social life, shopping, dining, and travel. Brett helped to bring me back to reality.
7. Healthier Lifestyle: Going out all the time means lots of drinking, as well food that’s not necessarily that good for you. Brett has taught me much about ditching some of my unhealthy eating habits. Plus, he’s introduced me to loads of healthy foods, that I adore. (sushi, anyone?)
8. Focus on Family, and not Career: You all know I love my job — it’s the source of many funny stories for me, and I’ve experienced some pretty amazing things. Back then, I was a ‘career woman’ and had my self-esteem wrapped up in my job. Things changed, and my priorities shifted for the better.
9. An Amazing Group of Friends: Post divorce, my social life didn’t leave a whole lot of time for close girlfriends. Thank goodness my best friends stuck by me (thanks to Angie, Laura, and Suzanne), and saw me through to a much better place in my life.
10. Being a Blogging Momma: Everything that’s happened in my life, good or bad, has led me up to now. If I hadn’t met my husband, had 3 children in 2 years, then what in the world would I have to write about??
Join in the fun at Mama Kat’s. And, be jealous, cause I get to hang out with her next weekend!
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